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One day a very nice lady came to training. She talked to me a lot. She explained what we were being asked to do. She explained why we were going to do the exercise. She even explained how we were going to get from the first gate to the end of the obstacle course. Yes, horses understand human talk!
Then she said, “Okay, let’s go.” And she dropped the lead rope and took off toward the other end of the arena. This is not how the game is supposed to be played. So I just stood there. Do you know that she didn’t realize I wasn’t following her until she got to the other end of the arena and turned around? Fortunately, she was pretty quick and she figured out what was wrong. So she came back and picked up the rope, asked me if I was ready to go, and started leading me through the obstacle course. After we were about a third of the way to the other end of the course, she dropped the rope and kept walking. Do you know what I did? I stopped. When she got to the end of the course again, she turned around and seemed surprised that I was still back where she dropped the rope trying to put a hula hoop over my head. So she came back and led me to the end of the obstacle course.
There are some important things humans can learn from this experience about leadership:
First, if you are in charge, you have to lead or I don’t get to the end of the course with you. It’s that simple. This becomes a little more complicated with other people, especially if they don’t know the rules of the game. This is especially true in a business setting. Second, if the person who is supposed to be the leader doesn’t lead, nobody knows where they are supposed to go or how to get there. Just imagine what would happen if you put all five horses in the arena together with five different paths through the obstacle course at feeding time – we might all go off in a different direction, following whatever path looks like the shortest route to the stable. Believe me, we would get something to eat, but it might not be what you intended for us to eat.
Third, if you are the leader and you drop the rope (stop leading), nothing happens – I’m just going to stand there. If you are trying to get people to do something, you can’t just tell them about it and drop the lead rope. You have to stick with it, hold on to the rope, and lead them to where you want them to go.
Fourth, if you only lead part of the way to the goal, and then you drop the rope, it can be more confusing than if you didn’t lead at all. You see, once you lead a horse into the middle of an obstacle course and then stop leading, the horse doesn’t know whether to stand still, go back to the beginning, or try to keep going to the end.
It’s been nice whinnying with you; but it’s time for me to get back to work.
Happy Trails.
Shanelle
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